Susan Zola

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT) AND Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS)

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Letters from Unfaithful Partners

This collection of letters comes from unfaithful partners who are courageously engaging in the work of self-reflection, accountability, and healing. These writings are part of a broader journey toward understanding the impact of betrayal and fostering transformation within themselves and their relationships.

Each letter is a powerful expression of honesty, remorse, and growth. Through writing, these individuals seek to process their actions, explore the roots of their behaviors, and deepen their capacity for empathy and integrity.

Healing begins with truth-telling—and writing can be a deeply cathartic tool for that process.

If you are an unfaithful partner and would like to share your own reflections or letter, please send your submission to suezola@me.com. Submissions may be posted anonymously with permission.

NOTE: Each letter on this page has been written and shared anonymously by an unfaithful partner who has chosen to contribute to this collective space for growth and healing.