Susan Zola

Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT) AND Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS)

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Homework

Self Assessments

Sexual Addiction Screening Test (SAST) Recovery Zone

Sexual Addiction Risk Assessment (SARA) Recovery Zone

Beck Depression Inventory Screening Test

Beck Anxiety Inventory Screening Test Beck

Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE) Questionnaire

Clinically Useful Depression Outcome Scale (CUDOS)

Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) Questionnaire

The Sexual Symptom Assessment Scale

Hypersexual Behavior Consequences Scale

What is a Check-In?

Check-In Work Sheet

FANOS - Check-In

SAFER Check-In

Geogram Activity Worksheet

Hierarchy of Needs Diagram Sheet

Emotions Circles

Schema Focused Cognitive Therapy Definitions

The Four Horsemen - Gottman - Sheet

Love Maps - Gottman - Sheet

The Gottman's Love Map Exercise

Betrayed Partners Homework Section

Partner Betrayal Trauma PTSD Questionnaire Homework Document

Partner Betrayal Trauma Questionnaire Homework Document

Partner Betrayal Trauma Trust Scale Questionnaire Homework Document

Effects of Abuse on Sexuality Document

Effects of Betrayal on Sexuality Document

What is a Betrayal Trauma?

What is DARVO?

Betrayal Blindness and Institutional Betrayal

What is the Structure of an Emotional Impact Letter?

What is Betrayal Trauma and How to Write an Impact Statement

What is a Boundary Sheet

Communicating Boundaries Sheet

Betrayed Partners Boundaries and Safety List - PASSWORD PROTECTED FILE

ISA Step 4 Homework Packet

People Suffering From Compulsive Sexual Behavior Homework Section

Patrick Carnes 30 Tasks of Sexual Addiction Recovery

Three Circles Exercise Document

Accountability Contract Document

Amends Letter Instructions

How to Write an Amends Letter

Amends Worksheet Document

Choosing the Relationship: Escape Behaviors Document

Choosing the Relationship: Trauma Responses Document

Contributing Factors Worksheet Document

Deception Timeline Exercise Document

Life Events Timeline Exercise Document

Trauma Timeline Exercise

Substance Use Timeline Exercise Document

My Escape Cycle Exercise

Escape Spiral

Escape Vortex

My Trauma Cycle Exercise

Trauma Loop

What is a Trauma Cycle?

Fear Cycle Exercise

Processing Shame Worksheet Document

What is Shame?

Charting Your Progress with Cravings Management

Abstinence Contract - Password Protected

Effects of Sexual Escape Behaviors

How to Respond to Triggers

Additional Information

Description of Attachment Styles Document

Description of Communication Styles Document

Description of Relationships with Escape Patterns and Abuse Document

Description of Survival Responses Document

Emotions Circles Document

Description of Types of Trauma Document

Dependency Continuum Document

Trauma Triangle: Safe Harboring Document

Drama Triangle: Unhealthy Dependency Document

Karpman Triangle or Drama Triangle

Faulty Core Beliefs Document

What is Darvo

Bonding and Attachment in Children

Developmental Needs

Doing the Work worksheet

10 Stages of Acute Traumatic Stress Management

21 ways to stay in peace

Healing Statement Sentence Stems

Trauma Tidbits from the Best Trauma Clinicians

Traumatic Attachment

Traumatic Memory and Neurodevelopment

Waking the Tiger Within To Heal Trauma

Emotional Vocabulary List