Formal Disclosure Process and Fees
Process
The Three Part Formal Therapeutic Disclosure Process for Betrayed Partners
Part 1: Formal Therapeutic Disclosure:
Your sexually addicted partner will create a facts only document (no apologies in this document) with their CSAT sharing their sexual history.
After receiving a passed polygraph, the sexually-addicted spouse will read their formal therapeutic disclosure document with you, and both of your CSAT’s via Zoom.
All of your questions will be answered on the last page of this document and will be part of the polygraph testing.
A passed polygraph test result is an important way to help repair the broken trust in the relationship. It also promotes the healing that comes from a formal disclosure.
A polygraph holds the unfaithful partner more accountable to tell the entire truth… remember the twelve-step slogan, “You are only as sick as your secrets”.
It may seem like the entire process is only for the betrayed partner, but it actually helps both the unfaithful partner and the coupleship to heal as well.
You will not be given a copy of this disclosure, but your CSAT will have a copy and review it with you as needed, and will destroy it when you agree that you no longer need to review it.
You are strongly advised not to ask for this information on your own.
Your CSAT’s are highly trained to help you process this traumatic information in a safe and supportive manner.
Part 2: The Emotional Impact Letter:
The betrayed partner is encouraged to take the opportunity to share the psychological, physical, sexual, financial, and emotional cost of their unfaithful spouse/partner’s betrayal. This letter will be shared with your unfaithful spouse/partner and both of your CSAT’s via Zoom.
Part 3: The Emotional Restitution Letter:
The Unfaithful Partner/Spouse, after hearing your emotional impact letter will respond to everything you wrote in their amends letter, also known as an Emotional Restitution Letter. This letter will be shared with you and both of your CSAT’s via Zoom.
The Three Part Formal Therapeutic Disclosure Process for Sex Addicts
Part 1: Formal Therapeutic Disclosure:
You will create a facts only document (no apologies in this document) with your CSAT sharing your sexual history.
After receiving a passed polygraph, you will read your formal therapeutic disclosure document with your partner, and both of your CSAT’s via Zoom.
All of your partner’s questions will be answered on the last page of this document and will be part of the polygraph testing.
A passed polygraph test result is an important way to help repair the broken trust in the relationship. It also promotes the healing that comes from a formal disclosure.
A polygraph holds you more accountable to tell the entire truth… remember the twelve-step slogan, “You are only as sick as your secrets”.
It may seem like the entire process is only for the betrayed partner, but it actually helps both the unfaithful partner and the coupleship to heal as well.
Your partner will not be given a copy of this disclosure, but their CSAT will have a copy and review it with your partner as needed, and will destroy it when your partner agrees that they no longer need to review it.
You are strongly advised not to disclose this information on your own.
Your CSAT’s are highly trained to help you share this traumatic information in a safe and supportive manner.
Part 2: The Emotional Impact Letter:
The betrayed partner is encouraged to take the opportunity to share the psychological, physical, sexual, financial, and emotional cost of their unfaithful spouse/partner’s betrayal. This letter will be shared with you and both of your CSAT’s via Zoom.
Part 3: The Emotional Restitution Letter:
After hearing your partner’s emotional impact letter, you will respond to your partner in an amends letter, also known as an Emotional Restitution Letter. This letter will be shared with your partner, and both of your CSAT’s via Zoom.
