HUMANS HEALING IN COMMUNITY – FREE SUPPORT GROUP FOR BETRAYED WOMEN AND UNFAITHFUL PARTNERS
Healing happens best in connection—with others who understand.
This confidential support group offers a unique opportunity for betrayed partners and their unfaithful partners to come together in a safe, compassionate space. Here, you can share your experience, strength, and hope without judgment.
The group meets weekly on Wednesdays from 7:30 PM to 8:30 PM EST via a HIPAA-compliant Zoom video platform. Participants are encouraged to log in at 7:25 PM. This is an ongoing, open-ended group available by invitation to clients I’ve worked with in my private practice or those who are referred by my colleagues.
Confidentiality is a core requirement. Everything shared in the group must remain private.
Group members are welcome to connect and support one another outside of group sessions unless someone specifically asks that their contact information not be shared. A live, editable Google Doc contact list will be provided for those who wish to opt in.
If you’re not currently a client but would like to join, you’re welcome to participate after completing a one-time individual intake session. This session allows me to assess your readiness for the group, understand your history, and offer feedback, resources, or referrals as needed. The intake fee is $250, and the group itself is free of charge.
Questions and comments are always welcome.
Writing on what it means to be a member of the support group:
Sex addiction affects countless lives, but for those reeling from the shock of betrayal, the experience can feel incredibly isolating.
Whether I’m working with you individually, with your partner, or together in couples therapy, my goal is to first help you feel grounded and safe. When you’re ready, I’ll invite you to join others who are also navigating the pain, confusion, and complexity of sexual betrayal.
This group offers a space to process powerful emotions—fear, anger, hurt, rejection, abandonment, frustration, grief, shame, insecurity, and confusion—that may feel overwhelming or even destructive. In the company of others who have faced similar challenges and are at various stages of healing, you’ll find empathy, support, and the possibility of hope. Through shared experiences, education, and compassionate connection, you may begin to discover that healing is possible—and that you are not alone.
As post-traumatic growth unfolds, many participants begin to experience deeper self-awareness, compassion, clarity, and the ability to practice loving detachment.
Each week, a topic will be introduced to guide reflection and discussion. As trust grows, members are encouraged to share their thoughts and vulnerabilities, always within the safety of a confidential and supportive space. Periodically, guest speakers will join the group to offer their insights, tools, and expertise to further support your healing journey.
All group offerings are rooted in the intention to foster connection, deepen understanding, and help you reclaim your inner peace.
Our group sessions have had the privilege of hosting esteemed professionals in the past, including:
Dr. Kenneth Adams, CSAT-S, EMDR
Dr. Michael Barta, Creator and Author of TINSA, Founder of the Reconnection Model
Dr. Robert Weiss, PHD, MSW, LCSW, CSAT
Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S, EFT certified
Dr. Barbara Steffens, PhD, BCC, CCPS, CPC
Dan Drake LMFT, LPCC, CCPS-S CSAT-S
Victoria Priya (Formerly Vicki Tidwell Palmer) LCSW, SEP, MBSR
Carol Juergensen Sheets, LCSW, CSAT, CCPS-S, CPC-S
Jeanne Vattuone, LCSW, CSAT-S, CCPS-S, CPTT-S
Tim Stein, LMFT, CSAT-S, CCPS
Marnie Breeker, the founder and CEO of Helping Couples Heal
Maddie Corman from Accidentally Brave
Laurie Hall, CPC, PSAP, RLBT, DSTP, BSP.
Debra L. Kaplan, MA, MBA, LPC, CMAT, CSAT-S, and Author
Dr. Jake Porter, LPC, NCC, CSAT-S, CMAT, CDWF, CCPS, CPC, CCTP – Psychotherapist | Coach | Consultant
Gary Katz, LCSW, CSAT, CPTT and the Director of the Center for Intimacy
Trish Haight, LMFT, CSAT, CPTT, CCPS, ISH, DSTT, AF-EMDR, NATouch, NARM, SEP
Ed Tilton MPA, CAC II, President of BAI
Elana Chasser, LCSW, CSAT, CMAT
Sako Barbarian MSW, LSW, LAC, CSAT. from BAI
Jodi F. Conway, LADC, MAC, CSAT, CCPS, Co-Founder, New England Recovery Associates
James Bailey, LMHC, CADC II, CSAT and Co-Founder of New England Recovery Associates
Aliki Pishev, LICSW, CSAT, CCPS, Executive Director/Founder of Life Solutions, Inc., and Member of New England Recovery Associates
Sarah Doebler, LICSW, CSAT, Certified in EMDR, and Member of New England Recovery Associates
Susan Malewicz, LCSW, CASAC, CSAT, CCPS, and Member of New England Recovery Associates
Tiffany Comiskey, ACC/CPC/CES, Partner Betrayal and Couples Recovery Specialist, Hope CFL
Karen Gelstein, LCSW, CSAT.
Allan J. Katz LPC-S/MHSP/CSAT
Lisa J. Ribacoff, Polygrapher
Stephen D. Cabler, Senior Polygraph Examiner
Michael Dineenan, LCSW, CACIII, IFS Level III trained, CSAT, CMAT, EFT trained
Candice Christiansen, LCMHC – Autistic-ADHD Autism Expert
Matt Wenger MA, LPC, CCPS, CSAT, Executive Clinical Director of the Begin Again Institute
Hope Ray, LPC, CSAT, CHFP, CCPS
Therapist-Led Support Groups for Healing and Growth
Couples Support Group
This group is designed for couples navigating the aftermath of betrayal, looking to rebuild connection and trust. It is therapist-led and offered by invitation only. If you’re interested in joining, please reach out to discuss eligibility.
Support Group for Women Who Have Left Their Relationships
Known as The BadAss Sisters, this group is for women who have ended their relationships following betrayal. If you’re ready to reclaim your strength and step into the next chapter of your life, this may be the space for you.
Together, we focus on rediscovering personal power, building meaningful connections, and moving forward—supported by a community of like-minded women who understand the journey. We hold space for laughter, friendship, and healing, even on the harder days.
Group goals include:
- Restoring a sense of sanity and inner stability
- Rebuilding trust in yourself and others
- Cultivating connection, mindfulness, and hope for the future
Important Note:
If you’re currently experiencing intense anger, resentment, or acute emotional overwhelm, it’s important to do individual work with your therapist before joining the Support Group for Women Who Have Left Their Relationships. Healing requires a supportive environment, and unresolved “group anger” can unintentionally hinder progress for all. Once you’ve worked through the early stages of grief, this group can offer powerful support for continued healing and growth.
If any of these groups resonate with you, please don’t hesitate to reach out. I’d love to help you find the right fit. If you are interested in joining a therapist led small group please send me a text 631 332-3312.
Betrayal Trauma & Divorce Coaching – Rachel Afenderson
Rachel Afenderson is a Divorce Coach specializing in betrayal trauma and post-divorce recovery. She offers compassionate support for individuals navigating the emotional and practical challenges that follow divorce. Her coaching focuses on healing, rebuilding confidence, and creating a strong foundation for your next chapter.
📩 Contact Rachel: Rachel@rachelafenderson.com
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